Monday, June 18, 2012

Bored Da Vinci Code

They are the Bored ones! They are not sterile, yet they are least affected by any outside activity.
Only some unrealistic bizarre extraneous theme can possibly seize their minimal attention.

What do you think led them to such bore-o-form? One of the common grounds could be a stressed childhood which compelled them to spend a lot of time alone. Other could be a personality mismatch where they found themselves to be either unique/different from the common packs or it might be hesitance to mix up with what they consider to be Sappy Societal Theatrics (SST). This again leaves them with ample lone time, to kill which they taught themselves to appreciate books and movies, which made them to develop rich fantasy life.

Later on, when faced with anticipation and reality in congruence, they become bitterly disappointed.
It leaves a gaping hole between their deluxe dreams and the literal mediocre flavor of life.
So they take up is excessive reading, traveling, going to movies, art events, collecting stuff or pushing other creative/imaginative ways to calm their restless hearts. You must not get fooled, though. Beneath the adventurer's mask there is a baffled and bitter spirit.

Beware of them!
They are emotionally damaged. You can prototype them as "Handle with care" glassware. Seems all shiny and lucid, but requires unfaltering upkeep. One wrong move and splatter. You'll be in ruins. It might be extremely challenging to crack their code. This exception actually propels one to win over them for they are conceived to be the"Difficult Ones". They derive a loathsome joy to have you assume that. You can't rely on what they are telling you. Instead, you will need to observe them in their unguarded moments. You will need to pay attention to their offhand comments. What do they reveal?

If you have skillful observation, its not much of a Da vinci code. They come out to be real romantic cruisers just like they have imagined in the fantasy island of their dreams. They like variety and one has to be sure to
bring in that element continually in their monotonous lives. That's what they need without being asked. Beauty won't do the trick in this case! Nope! You'll need to figure out what excites them (Not the Obvious).
Make them talk, observe their vulnerable expressions. Generally. knowing their likes/dislikes and very important of all, Taste in Music would guide you all through the mission. You'll have to decipher what sort of
experiences they are passionate about as he is restless, he yearns for different experiences, different pleasures and will get disappointed once the relationship takes the predictable course.

If he meets a woman that he thinks offers a variety of different experiences, he will fall in love. In fact, he will grow addicted to her and, unlike others, he will not be able to discard her.


You may find a relationship with one of the Bored Men quite interesting, because if he thinks you are that special woman for him, he will release a great amount of passion and energy that he was repressing his whole life and will focus it on you. However, the requirements from you are too high and the moment the monotony 
will creep in, he will be gone.

So just one thing to do -'Handle with care' ! Go Get him!! :)


1 comment:

  1. well for another gender to be able to reflect and respond so deeply and perceive it so accurately ....

    for me the these eyes see the world to the fullness which usually the normal fail to see!!!

    admirable!!! keep up the good work :)

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